tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3018123962812490552.post2747923888328527187..comments2023-04-30T11:34:25.223-04:00Comments on The Good, The Bad, <br>and The Blonde: Closer to FineKelli Bennetthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13894619011949920947noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3018123962812490552.post-7660352724550141882014-01-17T20:23:55.985-05:002014-01-17T20:23:55.985-05:00Hi hon!
What a wonderful, upbeat post! So, so hap...Hi hon!<br /><br />What a wonderful, upbeat post! So, so happy for you. You have earned your happiness. Well, other than failing to grasp the superiority of the Bruins and Red Sox. (Hey, no one is perfect.)<br /><br />Very much looking forward to your forthcoming posts! Have a great weekend, sweetie. :D<br /><br />Hugs & love,<br />CassCassidyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10765803435751308973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3018123962812490552.post-63896505252198860042014-01-17T16:05:27.079-05:002014-01-17T16:05:27.079-05:00It is one thing to have a differing opinion. It is...It is one thing to have a differing opinion. It is another to present one in such a condescending and belligerent manner. <br /><br />Yes, you are entitled to your opinion. However that does not make it the only opinion or necessarily the "right" one. It also means I can disagree with it. Which I do.<br /><br />There are many methods and issues to deal with before, during and after transition. They are unique to each person, for different reasons, even though the base story is often comparable. <br /><br />We all, however, need to take in these unique needs and concerns, and base how we approach them to how we as an individual feel we should. <br /><br />I often tell other trans people that I do not have the answers. Simply my story of how I did it. They can then take from it what they will and can.<br /><br />As I transitioned I found that no one person had all the answers for me. I took the portions of each story I heard that was similar to something I was experiencing and used that. Even if I was learning a less than ideal method. I had to frame things that I felt best worked for me and my situation. <br /><br />Of which you know nothing beyond what I post here. <br /><br />Back to the original point. While I do not have all the answers, I do have my story I am telling as best I can. I am always open for discussion and critique. If it is done in a polite and respectful manner. <br /><br />Neither of which you have done. Rather you decided to come here and berate and belittle my comments. Then proceed to badger me around with your superior attitude. Acting like nothing more than a common internet troll, hiding behind their anonymity while craving attention. <br /><br />If you cannot present your opinion with some level of restraint and exhibit a least a modest amount of respect, I will be force to not only delete your ravings. I will find a method of banning or moderating you out of the conversation. <br /><br />This is not up for discussion or debate. This is my blog and while, I welcome others to contribute, I will not tolerate your contentious antics. <br /><br />Your attitude is the issue here and nothing you can say at this point will change that. You comments are unproductive, destructive, and mean spirited. Nor have you earned any respect from me to actually listen to what you have to say. Adopting your position that you are ultimately right with simply shouting down at everyone is not a way to do it. You are not my mother, friend or anyone with any value to me. Others I have met and talk to via this blog have earned that right. Simply because they can have a healthy discussion even if they disagree. <br /><br />You obviously cannot so please take your issues, attitude opinions elsewhere.Kelli Bennetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13894619011949920947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3018123962812490552.post-13114716479180698012014-01-16T08:37:00.453-05:002014-01-16T08:37:00.453-05:00Simple answer to all of this, stop telling!The and...Simple answer to all of this, stop telling!The androgen blocker, there are several issues that affect natal women that can cause excessive levels of androgens. Google PCOS for one, as to all these people you and your family are telling? Stop doing it!yes it feels good to come clean after carrying that burden alone for so long. Or should I say, it feels good now... Because what you are doing is sacrificing your future for a feel good moment now! With every single person you tell you loose all control on who they are going to tell,and they are going to tell lots and lots of people! And as you are starting to realize, this is your business and no one else's, period! So stfu! Shooting yourself in the foot is NEVER the smart move!Miz Know-It-Allhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12573490462316887852noreply@blogger.com